I have used and heard the expression over and over again that "it was just bad timing"
When I finally stopped and thought about it, saying that expression goes against my beliefs and faith in God's timing.
Normally the term is used when a person thinks they meet a person that is good for them and then it ends up not working out and we blame it on "bad timing" but is it really bad timing?
Sometimes our investments in certain people cloud our judgment, we end up making excuses for the reasons why it isn't working out or didn't work out. We think that it must be the timing that is off.
Really who came up with this expression?
Bad timing is not the reason the "perfect" person for you ignores you.
Bad timing is not the reason the "perfect" person for you cheats on you.
Bad timing is not the reason the "perfect" person for you lies to you.
And so many other excuses we give to these people we are too scared to let go of because we think that if it was a different time maybe it would work out. Maybe if we spend time apart we realize how much we love the other person or maybe if we were a little bit older and more mature.
Really?
Really?
Why are we allowing ourselves to wait around for the right time with people who willingly choose to walk out of our lives?
God brought me back to realizing that HIS timing is the best timing.
This faith in His timing has brought me to such a beautiful place. A place where I don't sit around pining for a guy to text me back. If a guy can't pick up the phone that is already glued to his hand and use it to communicate with me, he's not the guy for me.
It's not the timing that bad, its the relationship between the two people that isn't right. Don't blame the timing, sometimes two people who try to be together aren't meant to be together. That's life. Don't sit around and wonder if the timing was different what life would be like. Trust in God's timing and be strong enough to let go of a person who you thought was perfect, if it was "perfect" it would have worked out.
